Holy COW! Again, i happen to pass by Matthew Zachary Liu's blog. OMG! I just love his post. All very interesting. Check this out :
Girls these days are showing too much skin. Not that i'm complaining, I believe in "flaunt it if you've got it". Besides, if any guy seriously doesn't do a double take at any girl who wears a little too little, he's either attached to a damn lucky girl or he's officially gay.
Now girls, before you start accusing guys of being perverts ogling you, be honest with yourself because i'm pretty certain your very intentions when picking your choice of clothes, is to be looked at.
But here's the thing.. where do you draw the line of decency?
I used to think miniskirts were quite a daring piece of clothing but apparently, the length of shorts girls put on these days are even way more revealing.
I've got to say individuals who put on such shorts have a heck lot of guts! But girls, really, don't you feel as if you're walking around half naked for the sake of comfort or looking sexy?
I mean, the shorts some of you girls wear these days are literally challenging the definition of the word itself! And there are even those who wear like extremely short shorts (or what they call hot pants) under their already tiny dresses which makes them look as if they've got nothing on under the dress..
I've always wondered, don't you feel as if you're parading around in just your panties? Isn't it awkward having people stare at your body parts or are you secretly enjoying the attention?
Oh by the way, showing your butt crack is disgusting! Your butt crack is in NO WAY sexy. Exposing a bit of ass WILL NOT get people slipping some coins into your slot like a piggybank.
Anyway, clothing is an expression of oneself. That, I totally agree. But by choosing to wear really provocative attire, there might be repercussions to your actions.
Little things such as your choice of clothes may lead to unpredictable circumstances and it isn't always very nice. You want to look sexy (and you have every right to), but sometimes you'll inevitably be attracting the wrong attention or be perceived as a slut.
If being seen as someone hot in the eyes of the male population is your true intention, there are a lot of ways you can go about it, there are so many styles of dressing you can experiment with. Showing more skin doesn't always equate to you being sexier.
If you were to ask me what I find sexiest about a girl, i'd say confidence. A girl who is able to carry herself really well, who is articulate and eloquent, who has her own style, simply a girl who knows who she is and proud of it.. that's sexy.
Then again, every individual has the right to define their own sense of style that portrays the image they want. I'm not trying to say wearing too little is bad or wrong because certain occasions really calls for us to dress up (or down for this matter) and i'm not exactly a conservative person but my question is, where do you draw the line of decency?
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I totally agree with this post. As a girl myself, i don wear tht kinda short shorts. Ppl may find me 'Out-Of-Fashion' but i, myself don think so. Is your own fashion sense. Come'on! (: Matthew post just inspire me alot and alot.
